ADHD and Pregnancy: What Nobody Tells You, From a Naturopath Who Lived It
Written by Eman Allouche, Naturopath, The Honest Naturopath | Last reviewed July 2026
ADHD and pregnancy is a topic that gets very little honest airtime. Most of what exists is either clinical and detached, or vague and reassuring in ways that do not actually help. This is neither. Eman Allouche is a naturopath who also happens to have ADHD. She went unmedicated through pregnancy. Here is what she actually experienced.
Going unmedicated during pregnancy: my choice and my reality
I decided to stop taking medication before pregnancy. I was trialling ADHD medication and was also on a long-term antidepressant. This is a nuanced area. The research on stimulant use in pregnancy is still evolving, the risks are not black and white, and I want to be clear that this was a personal, informed choice, not a prescription for everyone. Medication decisions during pregnancy should always be made with your prescribing doctor.
But going unmedicated meant the executive functioning scaffolding I had built with medication and lifestyle routines completely collapsed, particularly in early pregnancy. And pregnancy does not pause the demands of life to compensate. The cognitive load, appointments, decisions, planning, is enormous even for neurotypical people. For an unmedicated ADHD brain, it can feel genuinely insurmountable some days. Some days were good though, and I have to admit the ups and downs definitely gave me a taste of the dynamic nature of having a child.
How nausea made my ADHD significantly worse
Mine was bad. And for an ADHD brain, nausea creates a cascade that goes beyond feeling awful. When you cannot eat consistently, blood sugar is dysregulated. When blood sugar is all over the place, dopamine and executive function take a hit. So the nausea was not just physical discomfort. It was actively making my ADHD worse. Concentration, emotional regulation, and motivation all tanked.
I was also diagnosed with gestational diabetes later in the pregnancy, and I felt this had an impact. I sometimes felt anxiety around food, not eating what I always wanted to, and constantly managing my food intake and sugar levels.
I stripped things back to what was non-negotiable: a good supplement routine. A quality prenatal was the cornerstone, because I knew my diet was going to fluctuate wildly based on what I could physically tolerate on any given day. I was really intentional about this. I could not control my food intake the way I normally would, and I did not want to add anxiety by trying to maintain a complex supplement schedule I would inevitably drop. Fewer decisions, better follow-through. That is just how the ADHD brain works.
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The mental health reality, the part I am going to be honest about
This was the hardest. ADHD and mental health are already deeply intertwined. Anxiety, rejection sensitivity, emotional dysregulation and low mood are common companions even outside pregnancy. Add hormonal fluctuations, reduced dopamine from being unmedicated, and genuine external stressors, and I had some really dark moments.
I was navigating conflict in close personal relationships during a time when I had very little capacity to regulate my emotions. ADHD makes conflict harder to process at the best of times. The rejection sensitivity is real, the emotional flooding is real, the inability to just move on is real. Doing that while pregnant, unmedicated and hormonally maxed out was genuinely one of the hardest things I have experienced.
We now know my husband is AuDHD, which made this transition so much harder. He did not know how to show up for me and was often struggling with the dramatic change in our routines and managing our household alongside me.
And then there was watching war unfold in my homeland while growing a life inside my body. That is a particular kind of grief. The helplessness, the guilt of being safe, the hypervigilance that is already baked into an ADHD brain being fed by real-world threat. That combination is brutal. I do not have a tidy clinical framework for it. It just was what it was.
I also hated hospital appointments. Seeing someone different every time, the overly clinical environment. Hospitals are not sensory-friendly environments and I did not prepare for those sessions enough. I often went alone.
If this is you: perinatal mental health support is not a luxury. Please reach out, whether that is a psychologist, your GP or a perinatal service. You do not have to white-knuckle it. PANDA operates the National Perinatal Mental Health Helpline on 1300 726 306, Monday to Saturday.
Why movement was the most powerful tool I had
I want to be specific here because "exercise is good for mental health" does not capture it. Movement is one of the most effective dopamine-generating tools available without medication. Dancing and lifting four times a week were not just good for my body. They were keeping my nervous system regulated. They were my dopamine, full stop.
Exercise increases dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin, all the neurotransmitters ADHD brains are under-resourced in. It also improves working memory and executive function acutely, so the few hours after training I was noticeably more functional. It reduced my anxiety, improved my sleep, and gave me something that felt like a win every single time.
I also found that as the pregnancy progressed, my brain had days where it would fire more. This is partly attributable to the rise in oestrogen during pregnancy, which helps the brain process social cues and enhances plasticity. However, hormonal shifts during pregnancy, including changes in oestrogen and progesterone, are associated with temporary decreases in working memory, attention and processing speed, which underpins the well-known pregnancy brain phenomenon.
Fascinating and maddening in equal measure. Oestrogen and dopamine can be allies though, and movement is one of the fastest ways to activate that relationship.
I want to acknowledge that I was able to keep training because I was physically able to and prioritised it hard. Not everyone can. Hyperemesis, complications and fatigue are real. I am not here to make anyone feel bad about that.
For more on exercise in pregnancy, see Is it safe to exercise in the first trimester?
Why social connection matters more than you think for ADHD brains
ADHD brains struggle in isolation. We need novelty, stimulation and co-regulation, and other people provide all three. During pregnancy, when so much of your world can start to shrink, I held onto genuine social connection hard. Not performative socialising. Real connection: conversations that stimulated me, people who made me feel seen and not like I was too much. That kind of engagement is genuinely regulating for an ADHD nervous system.
What ADHD and pregnancy actually means neurologically
ADHD does not pause for pregnancy. Hormonal shifts, particularly in progesterone and oestrogen, directly impact dopamine regulation, which means the neurological challenges of ADHD can actually intensify during certain trimesters. The emotional disregulation, the sensitivity, the cognitive struggles: these are not just pregnancy brain. For neurodivergent women, there is a real physiological reason this is happening and it deserves to be named and supported properly.
If you are pregnant with ADHD and you are struggling, what you are experiencing makes complete sense. Your brain is navigating a hormonal landscape it has not encountered before, often without the tools it normally relies on. That is genuinely hard. It is not a character flaw. It is your nervous system doing its best under a significant load.
I share this not because I have all the answers, but because the honest account matters just as much as the clinical one.
Eman answers your questions about ADHD and pregnancy
Is ADHD worse during pregnancy?
It can be, particularly if you are unmedicated or reduce your dose during pregnancy. The hormonal shifts of pregnancy directly affect dopamine regulation, which is already disrupted in ADHD. The first trimester, when progesterone rises sharply and nausea disrupts blood sugar and routine, is often the most challenging period. Some women also experience windows of improved focus in the second trimester as oestrogen rises.
Can I take ADHD medication while pregnant?
This is a nuanced question with no universal answer. The research on stimulant medications in pregnancy is still evolving. Some women continue medication under close medical supervision; others reduce or stop. The decision should always be made with your prescribing doctor, with an individualised risk and benefit assessment. Do not stop medication abruptly without medical guidance.
Is it pregnancy brain or ADHD?
Both can be real, and they share overlapping symptoms: difficulty concentrating, forgetfulness, slowed processing, emotional sensitivity. The key difference is that pregnancy brain typically resolves after birth and is universal. ADHD symptoms existed before pregnancy and will continue after. For neurodivergent women, pregnancy hormones can significantly amplify pre-existing ADHD symptoms, making the two genuinely hard to disentangle. Being honest with your care team about your ADHD history is the most useful thing you can do.
How can I cope with ADHD while pregnant?
There is no single framework, but the most consistently useful tools from Eman's experience: simplify your supplement routine to what is truly non-negotiable and easy to maintain; prioritise movement as a neurological tool, not just a health habit; protect genuine social connection; and access perinatal mental health support proactively rather than waiting until you are in crisis. If you are unmedicated, structure and reduced decision load become even more important.
Where can I get perinatal mental health support in Australia?
PANDA operates the National Perinatal Mental Health Helpline on 1300 726 306, Monday to Saturday, and offers support for both mothers and partners. COPE provides evidence-based information and professional resources for perinatal mental health. Your GP can also refer you to a psychologist or psychiatrist with perinatal experience.
About Eman Allouche
Eman Allouche is a Naturopath at The Honest Naturopath, where she works with clients on gut health, hormones, fertility and women's wellbeing. She brings the same honesty to her practice that she brings to this article. Visit thehonestnaturopath.com.au to learn more or work with Eman.
